Every woman has her own preferences for men. Some of them choose a relationship with a married man, despite the suffering involved. But what is the motivation for this?
It could be said that women who choose relationships with married men juggle between love, hope, betrayal, and shattered dreams. In general, mistresses live a hopeless love story. But why do they get involved in relationships that make them suffer?
Francesco Alberoni, the specialist in the study of collective emotions and human feelings, explains the reasons why some women get involved in love relationships with married men.
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First of all, it could be about an exciting or seductive situation. According to Francesco Alberoni, there are several factors involved in this phenomenon and women who choose to love married men have different psychology, although they may have many elements in common.
Free love
Not all women want to get married! Some want free relationships, and sometimes this means getting involved in relationships with married men. In fact, according to some of them, married men are preferable, so as not to have too many headaches. This situation also suits married men who do not want to give up their wives.
He loves danger
For some women, a dangerous situation that may be part of their fantasies would be a stimulus to trigger the feeling of love. The qualities of the loved one are not really considered in this situation. Therefore, it is not necessary that between the two, the mistress and the married man, there should be closeness or even affinities on an intellectual or emotional level.
Searching for competition
To be stimulated in love, some women look for a rival, an obstacle, or a threat.
Possession of power over the rival
Despite living in a clandestine and unstable relationship, a mistress can develop a powerful relationship between herself and her cheating wife. The mere fact that she knows she can destroy the cheating woman’s marriage gives the mistress a sense of power. In addition, he can learn intimate things about the cheated wife. A sense of power can also give her the idea that she enjoys her man in exciting moments, avoiding the routine that settles in stable couples.
